Expectations will be the death of us, it is said. When expectations aren't met, we feel the pain of emotional turmoil and disappointment.
Because of the pressure we encounter when still very young, we take on as fact that something is wrong with us, even though nothing is wrong with us. Let's call this phenomenon, Factor-x. Are all expectations related to a negative self-belief? Perhaps. But what about when a murder takes place or where someone is abused? We say those behaviors are in our nature. But are they? Or is that behavior nurtured?
Some of us are driven over the top and perform inhumane deeds when a particular outcome isn't achieved.
Whether as spirit beings or as physical souls, we're only good-natured when we wouldn't wish a bad thing on ourselves or others, or for that matter, to anything. Harmful actions aren't in our nature. We acquired this behavior. With Factor-x, we almost don't stand a chance; all it cares about is disproving that something is wrong with us, or that our Factor-x even exists. So although we're capable of doing bad-natured things to ourselves, to others, or to things, that doesn't necessarily mean such behavior is in our nature. More likely it was nurtured, and thus acquired, and almost certainly driven by our Factor-x.
Murder and abuse are highly likely to be nurtured behavior. In fact, as seen from all the deeds we perform to disprove that something is wrong with us, it seems Factor x will try to have its way at all costs - each and every action being destructive, even to ourselves.
In essence, we are all good-natured souls. Even though this is true, we acquire destructive behavior in a myriad of forms. All of these forms, with our Factor-x contributing, are carefully and deviously nurtured and crafted - so artfully that we are almost certainly of the opinion that it is in our nature to be destructive. But is it in our nature to be destructive, and thus inhumane?
Because of the pressure we encounter when still very young, we take on as fact that something is wrong with us, even though nothing is wrong with us. Let's call this phenomenon, Factor-x. Are all expectations related to a negative self-belief? Perhaps. But what about when a murder takes place or where someone is abused? We say those behaviors are in our nature. But are they? Or is that behavior nurtured?
Some of us are driven over the top and perform inhumane deeds when a particular outcome isn't achieved.
Whether as spirit beings or as physical souls, we're only good-natured when we wouldn't wish a bad thing on ourselves or others, or for that matter, to anything. Harmful actions aren't in our nature. We acquired this behavior. With Factor-x, we almost don't stand a chance; all it cares about is disproving that something is wrong with us, or that our Factor-x even exists. So although we're capable of doing bad-natured things to ourselves, to others, or to things, that doesn't necessarily mean such behavior is in our nature. More likely it was nurtured, and thus acquired, and almost certainly driven by our Factor-x.
Murder and abuse are highly likely to be nurtured behavior. In fact, as seen from all the deeds we perform to disprove that something is wrong with us, it seems Factor x will try to have its way at all costs - each and every action being destructive, even to ourselves.
In essence, we are all good-natured souls. Even though this is true, we acquire destructive behavior in a myriad of forms. All of these forms, with our Factor-x contributing, are carefully and deviously nurtured and crafted - so artfully that we are almost certainly of the opinion that it is in our nature to be destructive. But is it in our nature to be destructive, and thus inhumane?
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