It was one of the defining moments in my life when I found out how to employ the Key to Happiness. Until that time I had never known that I had been carrying the key around inside of me for every moment of my life.
The great majority of people apparently believe that happiness is the result of something that happens to them. Perhaps happiness for them is having a ton of money, so they think that they need to win the lottery to feel happy. Or it could be that happiness is having a loving partner, so they think that they have to find such a partner who is somewhere out there in the world. Or it could be that happiness is being free, so they must find some way to be free themselves from the constrictions of having to go to work.
But from our NLP training we know that none of this is right. Happiness already exists within you and once you start to broadcast your own happiness to the world around you, the world mirrors happiness back to you in whatever form you want.
You might have noticed that when you smile people regularly smile back at you. This is correct, try it. The same point is true about happiness, if you radiate it out to the world around you it radiates back.
Hence if you're looking for a partner to make you happy, smile at any likely candidates who cross your radar. And make sure that you give them an enormous, full beam smile full of happiness. You will be surprised by how many possible partners smile back at you.
Smiling makes you much more approachable.
Smiling is a signal that you are feeling inner happiness. The more you smile the happier you are likely to feel and the happier you'll make others feel. And when you make others feel happy they're going to make you feel happy in return.
The significant point is that you have to make up your mind that you would like to feel happy, and then smile to make everybody else know how you feel. The secret is to "act as if" you are feeling happy and very soon you will find that you do feel happy.
The great majority of people apparently believe that happiness is the result of something that happens to them. Perhaps happiness for them is having a ton of money, so they think that they need to win the lottery to feel happy. Or it could be that happiness is having a loving partner, so they think that they have to find such a partner who is somewhere out there in the world. Or it could be that happiness is being free, so they must find some way to be free themselves from the constrictions of having to go to work.
But from our NLP training we know that none of this is right. Happiness already exists within you and once you start to broadcast your own happiness to the world around you, the world mirrors happiness back to you in whatever form you want.
You might have noticed that when you smile people regularly smile back at you. This is correct, try it. The same point is true about happiness, if you radiate it out to the world around you it radiates back.
Hence if you're looking for a partner to make you happy, smile at any likely candidates who cross your radar. And make sure that you give them an enormous, full beam smile full of happiness. You will be surprised by how many possible partners smile back at you.
Smiling makes you much more approachable.
Smiling is a signal that you are feeling inner happiness. The more you smile the happier you are likely to feel and the happier you'll make others feel. And when you make others feel happy they're going to make you feel happy in return.
The significant point is that you have to make up your mind that you would like to feel happy, and then smile to make everybody else know how you feel. The secret is to "act as if" you are feeling happy and very soon you will find that you do feel happy.
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Imagine a precision instrument that records the actions, words and feelings of the best performers. Then download that data to a powerful decoder that analyses and codes the behaviour. Transfer the code to your personal control panel so that you can reproduce excellence at will. This is how NLP Techniques work. NLP Practitioner David Ferrers will show you how to build your own control panel during Business Coaching, or at one of his NLP Training workshops or during NLP Practitioner Training in India.